I'm in my hometown on vacation. Went to a party with some friends. It's a small town, so everyone knows everyone basically. We all got quite drunk, and i found myself flirting with this girl. She is the younger sister of a girl i know, and i know her sister's bf pretty well. She came mostly on to me i think, and we ended up at my place and fucked. I normally never really get it on with girls from my hometown, but shit happened, and we were both pretty drunk. She was a surprisingly good lay though. It wasn't really awkward the day after, and i drove her home. She turns 20 soon, i'm 27 myself.

Usually after i get with a girl, i will have some kind of communication with her. Like, i have her number, snapchat, facebook, whatever. Not in this case. No snapchat, or number, not friends on FB. I have plenty of mutual friends with her, so i can easily see her on fb, but i'm usually not much of a fan of the "friend someone on fb" after you've banged them. She doesn't live in this town, she studies in a larger city.

I really hate to "game girls" in my hometown because it's just such a mess when everyone knows people. I'm pretty sure literally the whole town knew as soon as she entered my bedroom. Rumours spread like wildfire here. Earlier tonight i went to the beach to play some soccer with some friends and many other mutual friends. The girl was there. I didn't talk to her at all, don't think we exchanged any words. I just came, played some ball and left. She didn't seem interested in talking too, and didn't pay me much attention. Defence-strategy in public since there were people there? It annoys me when i can almost "sense" how people know we've banged and it makes it awkward. It messes with my frame, even when i know i shouldn't care about other people's opinions. When we go to party here, it's mostly house-parties where you see the same people, and some of the people are such doofuses who loves to bring up stuff like that, or hint towards it, in public, to make people uncomfortable.

What's the best way for me to progress with this girl? Obviously i just want to plate her, as we live in completely different cities, but since we're both from this town i will bump into her during holidays. Do i add her on fb and text her, or do i play it cool and wait until we eventually meet at some party maybe this weekend? I have no idea if she expects me to text her. And what would be the best way to remain frame if i get some digs at me at parties? Laugh it off?