To begin I'm 17. So, I'm not in a relationship or anything. And I never get called controlling if I have knew the girl for a while. But on the past two first dates I've been on with girls they have both called me controlling or some slight variation. The first incidence, I went to this girls house and it was in the low 30 degrees (C) and we live in the UK and this is very rare. It was boiling so we went outside and were in separate recliner seats. I have slight ADHD so sitting in silence "sun bathing" is boring as hell for me. So I said common let's do something or whatever. And she didn't go with it so I just said "hey I'm not gonna just sit here in silence this is boring as, I 'm gonna leave if this is all we're going to do." And she said "jesus you're so controlling" and we went and played cards which was quite fun tbf.(I won lol)

The second time was like 30 minutes ago, we went for a walk and she was on a bike biking in front of me (I was walking, she biked to come see me.) Anyway I said like hey stop biking in front of me bike slower. And she made a comment on me being controlling or something. Dont remember the exact words but the meaning was the same.

Anyway, what am I doing wrong if I am doing something wrong? How can I fix it? Thanks.