I got out of an LTR a little while ago so I'm back in the game. I just graduated college, but I'm spending time at home for a year to get my finances in order/my feet on the ground a bit before I move on to an apartment or condo.
A lot of my plates are still juniors/seniors in college. I talk to a couple girls who have apartments in the cities near me. I fuck them at their place, but I've taken a noticeable dip in being able to close on girls because there's no place of mine to go back to.
My SMV also feels lower, and I have slightly less confidence with the girls I've already plated because I'm always coming to their spot.
If I'm gaming a new girl at the bar for ex. I have to come up with a way to get invited to her place. I know for sure I could've closed 10x more with a simple "let's go back to mine" but there is no "mine" with which to speak of.
I'm getting tired of dipping from a girl's at 4am or trying to fuck a girl in my car smh.
Should I just take this year to focus on myself a bit, not get caught up in these logistics? I suppose I should be patient since I expect this situation to change in a year. Any advice by someone who's been in this position is appreciated.
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