A lot of questions in this post that are directed specifically at redpill men.

I use my sex drive to determine who I might like. To be really specific this means I use whenever I'm aroused to determine when I will like someone emotionally. I'm going based off how often my clit is getting hard to them and my hole getting soaking. Sorry to be crass & blunt but I want to be clear about what I mean. I mean physical sexual arousal. As in I feel the effects in my body.

I've gotten so much so much criticism from men when I tell them this. That I follow my sex drive to determine who I will like. I think because they automatically assume I get wet for this really particular alpha trope (Chad) but I get wet for sweet guys.

One guy I dated, who wanted to be cucked asked me a real weird question once he found out my type, it really stuck with me because of the way he worded it. It was: "why are you hurting yourself by liking men who are weak & pathetic?" I always thought that was a weird way of wording it. Because the men I went after I saw them as way more unlikely to hurt me and more relatable too.

So what do you think of girls who go after sweet guys specifically because they are aroused by them?

Let me reiterate: I follow my SEX drive when selecting who I like. The drive is towards sweet men. This sort of goes against TRP that promotes men be both stoic and abusive in order to turn a woman on. And they promote that AGAINST how they really feel. I read a lot of crap on redpill subs where men often say stuff like ''its not easy to turn off your emotions but you have to or she will think you are weak." This is spoken about and worded in many many different ways scattered constantly throughout redpill ideology.

If this is really actually so prevalent (women loving emotionless abusers) does that make me a freak of nature for liking shy sweet guys?

Because I always actually thought that it was my NATURAL INSTINCT that led me in that direction. Again to reiterate, I thought it was my NATURAL INSTINCT to like what I like because I follow my SEX drive when selecting who I like. Meaning when I become aroused is what tells me.

To the guys who promote that type of thought I have a question for you: Do you want an actual connection or bond with a girl? The girls you pursue are you looking to just get laid or do you want to get close to someone? If you want closeness then how does being fake (holding frame), lying, concealing your emotions, and manipulation work to achieve that?