How do you fix or prevent performance anxiety?

FereallyRed · 2019-08-12T05:14:23+00:00

Because you see it as a performance.

You're there for your own pleasure and fun and desire, you're really not responsible for hers.

It's not a performance, it's two people getting off with each other.

SamVimesFucksDimes · 2019-08-12T08:02:52+00:00

You're in your head about it. I've had a few other friends come to me with this problem.

It's self fulfilling. I bet you had one time go poorly, and since then you've been stressing it.

Every one of my friends who had it, it eventually just went away. They forgot about it, fucked a girl, realized they hadn't had an issue, good to go.

If you want to take a viagra it might help you bust the slump, but it might also just make you rely on it psychologically.

Try call up an old plate you never had any trouble with, someone who you're not even a little nervous with. And then just relax.

Otherwise, just give it time my dude.

youcancallmedada · 2019-08-12T03:32:58+00:00

Try to submerge yourself in the moment, you know. I never had performance anxiety because I don’t even think about it, it’s just natural lust and I wanna put it in and hump away.

L3onard3 · 2019-08-12T04:16:39+00:00

Too much to drink?

Trump-Is-Op · 2019-08-12T06:54:12+00:00

Change your mentality, easiest way to look at it is. Im a sex god and I’m doing her the favor of losing her goddam mind and passing out to me. If she likes it good. If she does not like it, she can look for someone else and save me the effort. At the same time i know i need to get better.

Rodent9 · 2019-08-12T03:30:58+00:00

Self-esteem issues? I have this problem too but have gotten over it to a large extent, just get some head then stick it in

Title	How do you fix or prevent performance anxiety?
Author	ElvisDimera
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	August 12, 2019 3:23 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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