I broke up with my LTR of a year and half about 2 months ago now. Long story short, she wasn't the right fit for me... I'm in professional school and school "wasn't her thing". I poorly vetted her and rather got caught up in her looks more than anything else. There was a lot of issues throughout the relationship, one in particular was a DJ she'd always message/snap. She claimed they were just friends, and that they would never see each other since he was in Europe. Nonetheless, this was my breaking straw and I broke things off.

I tried to end with her in a way that we could remain friends, stay connected on social media and maybe I could plate her later - I should have never done this. For the first month I had to watch her post restlessly on Insta, which never bothered me... if anything I knew she was doing it to regain self-esteem. Now though, she suddenly went on a "spontaneous" trip to Europe with her friend and is posting pictures and stories of her backstage, on boats, and at restaurants with that DJ she was talking to during our relationship. This for some reason has really fucked me up. I guess it just a tough pill to swallow knowing that my gut was right.

I'm not sure what I should do going forward. I can't keep up and try to make my life look like its going equally as well on social media, its just not who I am. I also don't want to unfollow her now, and give her the satisfaction that she knows she got to me. I really need someone to rip into me about this, and straighten me out.