What I’m saying is I’ve gotten low interest from women who don’t desire to have sex or a relationship with me, I’ve never thought it was personal. I have abundance. But for someone that says “I’m not interested in having sex with you” i have to translate this in a way I can understand “I would have sex with you but you have to show me something positive” so when it’s so explicitly written on the proverbial wall I seem to think she doesn’t mean she’s not interested because it’s not about what she says it’s about what she does and what she does is show interest. It’s backwards. This is not the fairy tale we were used to as kids in movies. I just realized the women I’ve been chasing for most of my adult life has been right beside me. I don’t know why I didn’t see this sooner. Does anyone relate? Am I missing something?