So for context I have been reading up on trp for about 6 months now. I still haven't fully ingested it. A girl I met at the mall gave me IOI's so I got her number, went to see a movie with her, and got some food. Normally I wouldn't have done that for a first date but I was planning to see it regardless with or without her. As for the food I had been to the gym and worked all day so she just was tagging along essentially. This night stopped after food because she had to wake up for target practice the following day (she's a marine) and 4am I understand wanting to get sleep.

She drove over to my place last night and we went to the beach, we had made clear plans to do that and then go back to my house after. When we got to the front she says "oh I'm going with you?" I already told her we were going to the beach and then back to mine. We get inside into my room and I leave to get some water. I come back in and start talking as she pulls her phone out and answers it saying something happened,her friend is crying, and needs her. She gets up and asks what time "are you off tomorrow?" She leaves, she then texts me when she gets back home (lives on base) saying that she made it home, and apologized for cutting the night short.

Now I haven't responded since and planned on soft nexting her. Is this too harsh or should I be understanding and let it slide? I value my time and after 2 hang outs I feel as if we should have fucked by now. I usually F close 1st date so this has thrown me for a loop. What do you think I should do? She seemed really into kissing me and let me put my hands wherever so I'm not sure if it was bad timing or she is trying to hold out and get me geared for an LTR or orbiter. Thank you for any advice.