Read up on dread game and currently using the first 2 levels of the ‘10 levels of dread’. Definitely made some difference in how I expected my girl to treat me, much better. However recently I outright told her to pull her shit together around me or I’ll leave her (was overreacting, getting upset a lot, complained more, less effort) and this has actually worked even better. Should I expect any repercussions for directly using dread like this instead of the typically indirect way?