Hey

I'm a 20 year old guy, lifting for 1.5 years, redpill for little less than half a year. Before I started lifting I didn't really get many IOI's from girls (or didn't notice any), but I have changed TREMENDOUSLY last 1.5 years. I am a way above average looking guy, I'm really fit, dress well, have my own personality/thoughts, am confident, and generally don't give a lot of fucks. Last year I have had so many IOI's from girls every time I go out, sometimes it feels like every girl at the party is into me, and I'm the most wanted guy out there. I'm a really sociable guy and can talk to anyone about anything. People really seem to like me, my friends see me as high value (always looking at me for validation, always wanting me to be at social gatherings) and generally I'm often the life of the party. An example, yesterday I was at a party where I knew no one. I was at the dance floor with my mate and he went out to get drinks. Suddenly I was surrounded by girls all almost grinding with me, but no one dared to look me in the eyes or anything. I tried grabbing this girl in front of me who was crotch to ass with me, saying to her, lets dance, but she just looked at me weird/bewilderd and just left. I have no clue what's going on here.

With all this humble bragging being said, my problem is with girls who are CLEARLY into me, not engaging in conversation/flirting. It seems like they're almost too shy to talk to me or don't want to say something bad to ruin their chances with me. A lot of the times I ask questions I get short answers, no questions back, but they still stay standing/dancing next to me. I get really bored from girls who don't reciprocate the same feelings like me. Trying to isolate after a couple of minutes also often doesn't seem to work for some reason, and I'm not the type a guy to tonguewrestle a girl in the middle of a club.

Also I feel like being over over cocky/confident often doesn't work with me, girls often see me as the "playboy" type and try to avoid me for that reason, even though I can count on 2 hands the girls I've fucked in my life. I got 2 plates right now, both who I know through friends or acquaintances, but my biggest problem is getting laid with complete strangers.

What advice do you give me in this scenario?

Thank you