Should you pay first date?

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-09-04T15:27:51+00:00

Wrong question and state of mind.

You shouldn’t be taking girls out to expensive dates/formal dates

IE:

DONT do dinner dates.

Why?

You’ll get into this situation where you don’t know whether to split or not. Some girls will feel entitled for you to pay, some others will feel pressured into letting you pay as it’s a very traditional kind of date from a more traditional dating scene, some girls will want to split.
They haven’t earned expensive dates from you. Keep this for FWBs. If you have an abundance of women, taking all of them to dinner places costs a lot, and you aren’t even guaranteed pussy.

Take them out to ice cream, coffee, walk in the park. With the first two, it’s 99.9% implied that it’s everyone pays for themselves and most of these places don’t give a bill to the table you sat on, they bill you SEPARATELY at the till as soon as you order.

One bill,one person, one order.

Whereas in a dinner date, it’s:

One bill, multiple people, multiple orders collated together.

wawakaka · 2019-09-04T17:24:52+00:00

pick a no pay low pay date. if she wants a meal let her pay half. too many women are using men for free meals lately.

treat dating like a business. everything has a price.

boy_named_su · 2019-09-04T18:17:31+00:00

you should use the search function first

audacious_wirble · 2019-09-04T15:06:45+00:00

It is becoming known.

If you pay, you expect her to put out.

If she pays, she is a unicorn.

Splitting the bill is becoming the norm, and how it should be done. I have enjoyed watching reactions on first dates when j tell the server to split the bill. It is a great indicator of what to expect afterwards.

Title	Should you pay first date?
Author	Crisuveli
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	September 4, 2019 2:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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