Hi guys I’m going on my first date post red pilling. I can’t same day lay because of logistics, but I’d like to secure plate status and keep her as an FWB.

I met her at the bus stop and just introduced myself and asked her if she’d like to hang sometime. She said no problem and we found a day to meet, which is tomorrow.

Since then, texts have been minimal. Admittedly I’ve been acting very beta on the text game, always looking to see if she responded, initiating conversation with her when I can see she’s online and a few other things. She even asked me not to text much, just logistics only, which I have done since that day.

I haven’t internalized much game. To be honest I’ve been shitting myself the whole day, figuring out what I’m going to wear, cutting my hair, whitening teeth, doing chest arm and shoulder to pump up the aesthetics side of things.

Is there anything I can do stop acting beta? Any tips for the big day? It’s my first date with someone new other than my ex, and I’m not sure what to think.