After some self evaluation I realized that in almost all of my social circles, I end up being the bitch in some way. A lot of times I'm the butt of the joke or just flat out disrespected. Since it happens so often it has to be something I'm doing that's causing this. I don't react most of the time, and I agree and amplify in the appropriate scenarios.

I'm skinny as hell but I'm already lifting so do I just have to be patient and wait until I'm physically intimidating? Or is there a different problem I'm likely missing?