About a month ago, after years of relying on Tinder/bumble and night time approaching to meet girls, I decided I want to put in the (extremely hard) work to get good at Daygame, because I know I should be able to get hotter girls from daygame than from online, and I don't like going out at night that much anymore.

I've dabbled in daygame before, but it had been very sporadic.

For the past month, I have approached every single day. I have just hit 50 approaches. That doesn't sound like much, but I am still struggling with approach anxiety. I have been going out 7 days a week during the day, each day for multiple hours of driving to many different venues to approach.. yet each day I only walk away with 2 or 3 approaches.

This is a GRIND! And after 50 approaches, I barely see any progress. I've number closed 2 girls out of 50, which I know is abysmal.. and I couldn't get either of those to come out on a date. I have had 4 other sets that went longer than 50 minutes but ended up in rejected number close attempts - due to "I have a boyfriend" or similar things. All of the other sets were either me ejecting too early from nerves, ejecting due to her not feeling it and saying she has to go, and maybe 5 or 6 downright blow-outs.

Here's the thing.. I am not an ugly dude, and I have slept with over 50 women. I don't say this to brag in any way shape or form, I'm just setting context that I am not some virgin, I have some confidence, I know how to dress pretty well.. it's just this day game cold approach thing that currently seems so fucking insurmountable for me.

When does it get better? When will I feel much less AA? When will I not give a shit about "spotlight effect" ('other people can see/hear me, i can't approach now!). How long before i start to see some fucking progress?!?!