Last month, a girl (9/10) who I've been seeing for a while has invited me to her house while we were at a bar.

Her boyfriend was out camping, and their relationship has just started 2 days ago.

We were classmates with the girl, I also have some history with this girl which never went too far.

However, she recently made a boyfriend. She could've said that she now has a boyfriend via text while we were arranging the meeting, but she chose to say it when we met. That was the redflag. It was obvious for me that I wasn't going to meet or text with her again. So, I accepted her invitation just to see what was going to happen. We grabbed a couple of drinks and went to her house.

She was asking me questions such as " Do you like me ? " and " Do you have other thoughts about me, beside friendship? Is that why you met me ? "

I responded with " I wanted to meet with you and met you. I didn't stop and think if it was "friendly" or "if it was going anywhere". I just met with a beautifull girl to grab a couple of drinks. " ( I still think this was the best response to her shittest )

She was not satisfied with my answer and kept on asking such questions.

Throught the whole night, I felt like she was trying to get me to make a move just to say "Oh, you got me wrong." we even had a play-fight over a lightsaber while we were on the couch and she was on my lap. She comes from the conservative parts of my country and she is a prude. I know that she is a virgin. So, I was quite sure. She was teasing me just to reject my move.

The sexual tension was really high, however I knew something was off. So I decided to leave it was around 03.00.

I left her a note which simply said, " I had fun, maybe we'll see each other in better nights " told her to read it after I left. We hugged and I said goodbye.

She texted me after she read the text which was like ten minutes after I left.

" Wow, thanks :) "

Since, I decided to cut her out - I never replied back.

Later today, I heard from a mutual friend (who is from their girl-circle). She said to her, that I was hitting on her for the whole night. She told about me to her boyfriend and such.

I texted her;

- It's a shame, that you are talking behind my back.

"What are you talking about ?" She replied back.

I simply wrote; " I didn't wrote to you for arguing. Good night "

She wrote a couple of messages. I didn't reply back deleted her number and deleted her from Instagram.

Later this night, our mutual friend called me to report that the girl was texting her. The girl was mad, she was angry with me for talking to her that way.

As I said before what I texted was " It's a shame, that you are talking behind my back." and I didn't want to argue.

I'm always amazed by how truthful"AWALT" is.

Did I handle the situation well ?

I want your thoughts on these subjects;

Why would she talk behind my back knowing that i would hear about it ?

If I had sex with her that night, would the outcome be the same ?

Have you ever felt like a girl was giving you all the right signals, just to decline your move ?

Have I averted her shittest correctly ?