There really isn't any difference in my eyes. Guys act like if they put enough kindness coins into the machine then sex will fall out. Women put sex coins in trying hoping a relationship will plop out.

My point is, men who try and manipulate women with covert contracts are generally viewed with disgust. Here is a man who felt entitled to a woman's body simply because he did nice things for her. Commitment. Gifts. Time. Energy. Etc.

But when it's a woman who is fucking a man in hopes of being in a relationship with a guy, we look at it as if he's using her. He led her on. The least he could do is commit to her after they got together. He's just a playa. She deserved better than what she got. Etc.

Why the double standard? Commitment from a man is equal to sex from a woman in the sense that it's their respective gender's most powerful piece.