Note: english isnt my native language

All my life Ive been the joker, creative, orginal. Very confident, Witty jokes, flirt with girls trough jokes, girls liked me tho but sort if in the different way than chads, I used to get that weird sexy look from them like Im a weirdo thats atractive or something ,(and I didnt want to be weirdo anymore, I wanted to be taken seriously like a chad). Whatever I met everyone tried to be happy/chat about something funny with me, sort of that Im just good conversation for something funny. I realized that even tho I had lots of friends I was sort of not really respected. Whenever I spoke people were expecting me to joke, even tho I wanted to say something serious. So this past year I decided to make a transformation and it worked. Started being more serious faces after my statement, changed my appearance a bit from crazy to more conservative. Im now still sort of the original, creative, funny one but way more respected by my peers and girls.

My question is are jokers alpha or beta? And do girls feel secure around them? I feel that girls just think that Im too much in my own world thinking about crazy things and not really there to be alpha chad who can just hug them tight and protect them you know what im saying? :D lol So they look at me like fun night stand, sex but definetly not a real man. Idk if any of you get what Im talking about but thats that.