Theredpill is not only for bettering your interaction with women, but bettering your interaction with existence. And I think that's the mistake: equating women to existence. As a beta, I would constantly keep women in the back of my mind when posting something online or to Facebook. I wanted to please them, I wanted to post something that represented me in order to get likes and recognition from women.

Now, there ain't nothing wrong with pleasing people, as long as it's on your own terms. Theredpill made me realize that I must write and do things I want in a way others find pleasing, as opposed to writing and doing things others want in a way others(or me) find pleasing. I need to live on my own terms.