Monday Field Report Thread 12/29/14

doubleecho88 · 2014-12-30T01:58:31+00:00

I went from 0 plates to now spinning 3 plates, all in the course of 2 weeks.

I've taken on the attitude of "fuck it" when I interact with my dates, not letting them read me at all if I'm genuinely attracted to keep them working for it. Made sure to always close first dates with a kiss and grabbing them nice and tight during, not caring if we're in a public place or not. Both plates I ended up having over to my place and ending up in my bed. First one has an OK face but an amazing body and an extremely tight pussy, almost pushes me out when she cums and she gave one of the best BJs I've ever had, even when I didn't think I had more in me. Ended up seeing her the next day too and stayed over, had some great morning sex.

Other plate insisted she was a good girl when she came over and that we weren't going to do anything. I took the advice I've seen on here of kissing and teasing her (kissing her neck, sucking on her tits etc) and then being the one to stop the action, letting her simmer while cuddling on the couch and escalating further and further each time I made out with her. Ended up fingering her very slick pussy and made her cum quick. She then told me I needed to calm down while patting my hard on, so I just shrugged and kissed her again (with her jeans still unbuttoned) and told her I "just wanted to rub against her pussy". She told me her jeans were staying on, more making out turned into "You can take your pants off but my underwear is staying on" to me getting the F close with her panties on the floor.

3rd plate I've been talking to for about a week and again, she insists she's a good girl but when I started texting her dirty thoughts about what I wanted to do (making sure to assert myself as a sexual being and not a "nice guy") I got her motor running. "I don't send naked pics until a few dates" turned into some pics of some very hot tits and her telling me "I swear I'm a good girl but I really want your cock". Next day of course that turned into "I want to try to be a good girl when we get together at your place, but you say all the right things" and "I'm really going to try to behave".

Now what's the lesson here for me? The old me, months after my divorce, would have tried to be the nice guy in all of these situations and just took things slow, maybe I wouldn't have kissed them the first date and wouldn't have gotten them naked the second. That was 2 years ago. Now after lifting, getting confidence, asserting myself and letting women know exactly what I want with them and not being afraid to walk if it's not an acceptable situation for me, and of course finding this site I have probably have more luck with women and gotten laid more than I ever did in my entire 6 year marriage.

Currently have all 3 wanting to spend the night with me on New Years. It's pretty amazing having my pick, probably going to turn the good girl into a bad girl and then again on New Years day in the morning.

Taybe · 2014-12-30T02:32:58+00:00

I'm a new member of the community, started swallowing ~1 month ago. I have been able to process a lot of the material because I had a strong interest in human psychology even before finding TRP, however, I was a complete fucking LOSER and Blue Pilled as fuck.

I went to my first social event of the year yesterday (house party with 60-70 heads) and I happen to turn twenty today. 2014 was horrible for me.

Despite being a complete and absolute loser for a year I had the time of my life but sadly was not able to close with the only 9 at the party whom I had been working on due me obsessing over how to do it and this whore whom I refused to pay attention to cock blocking me via a shit test that I failed horribly. I need a lot of work on maintaining frame.

I'm hoping as I head into 2015 it will start going my way, but I realize I have a looong way to go.

Need to motivate myself.

argentinean · 2014-12-30T08:03:17+00:00

It's been like 3 months since I swallowed the pill -- there's a lot to report about but I'll leave that for another post.

This was a tinder date. Set the place in a wine bar. We both like wine so wine-related things were a good conversation starter.

When the chick showed up, I found she had some extra pounds more than in her pics. I would say 10 to 15 pounds. But still had some good tits, nice ass and sexy green eyes I would like to see me while blowing me. I would rate her a 6-to-7 HB. Post wall (32 y.o.) but well maintained other than for those extra pounds.

Conversation went really well. Interesting life stories of both so a lot to talk about. I took every opportunity to escalate with touching, like touching her arm when making a point or a joke, slightly approaching, etc. And found out she was responsive to my touching her. Music was loud in the place, so we needed to have our faces really close to listen each other.

Played to guess what other people in the room was thinking or what was up to (e.g., who were gold-diggers looking for guys with money, who were hookers, what was that couple talking about... stupid stuff like that but that helped to get intimate).

I also spoke to her in Spanish from time to time (she had lived in Spain for three years), which helped increase intimacy and made it more fun too.

One thing that, after some bad experiences, I avoided was the typical conversation line "so what are you looking for in tinder/dating/whatever?". I find that such question forces the girl to make a decision in advance and may activate her anti-slut defenses. Especially when I am honest about me not looking for something exclusive or a LTR. So I asked nothing about what were her intentions in dating or what was she looking for in a man.

Then I started thinking that I had to go for the kiss -- I remembered Manson's Models book saying that if you are thinking you should go for the kiss, then you should've done it some time ago already.

So when she was talking I just approached, took her head from behind the neck, and kissed her. Just a short kiss to make clear my intentions and become more sexual. It also helped break the uncertainty regarding my attraction. She liked it and said smiling "you're so latin", but in a good way (I'm from South America but don't consider myself a "Latino" for U.S. standards, but she was trying to make the point that I was kinda passionate or something like that).

Wine and conversation went well but then she had to leave -- she had a wedding next day and had to be up early to travel out of town. We walked to her car and when we got there I grabbed her and kissed her really hard. Took her from the hips and pressed them to mine. Then grabbed her hair and pulled it a little bit first to see how she liked it, and then harder when found out she was liking it. Then I slightly choked her while kissing her and she went crazy hot. She kept saying "I gotta go". I pinned her to her car and continued kissing her neck, choking her (she even put my hand on her neck to do that), grabbing her tits (same thing), etc.

I tried to go for the F-close and go to her place or to mine, but she said she had to wake up early. After a few attempts, I said "fine, see you another day" (trying to show abundance mentality). Later I got a text from her "I liked kissing you", to which I answered "I know".

I'm seeing her on Thursday. Very likely that will get to the F-close.

skett007 · 2014-12-30T13:55:28+00:00

TIFU by attracting a gay guy to me while practicing my confident posture and eye contact.

My timid look, poor posture, and failing to hold eye contact was making me look like a poor excuse of a man.

I was concentrating on trying to read micro expressions while trying to hold eye contact as I was walking down the hallways at work. Most of the looks I received back were disinterested and they broke eye contact quickly. A few women did hold my eye contact and one hb 4/5 did a small eye flare back at me. Most of the dudes just nodded with a half smile. One dude turned around mid stride and tried to walk with me and chat me up. I was going to the restroom anyway so I figured I would loose him there. Nope, he followed me in! At that point my oblivious happy go lucky brain caught up to my situation. Shit!!! I walked right back out and ditched him by going into a room where he was restricted from entering. Eye contact with dudes and in a business environment should be subtlety different from eye contact with women.

elscorcho1991 · 2014-12-30T01:23:38+00:00

I met a girl at a community college (I hang there for a bit in the middle of my bike rides) and I approached her by showing her a game I made up (I'm a math guy, so I try to use that to my advantage).

For a few weeks, we had a fuck buddy thing going on until one day we were in my room and I was physically escalating. She said she didn't want to so I said OK and stopped cuddling up against her and just focused on the movie we were watching (The Godfather, my choice).

She kept giving me funny looks for the next few minutes and finally asked "am I boring you?" I replied "first you don't want to hook up, so now I'm watching the movie". I feel like I should have said "yeah" but lesson learned.

Anyway she shortly says, "I'm not feeling so good, can you just take me home?" and I said yep, without hesitation and began putting my jacket on. She hesitated and stayed on my bed. She then told me she had to tell me the truth about the PTSD she had mentioned before that I didn't necessarily believe or disbelieve (too soon to know).

She told me about some bad shit that happened to her sexually (rape, more than once) and that it was getting closer to the time of year that it happened. I am skeptical of these sorts of things but I chalked it up as the truth (the pieces all point to that). I told her to stay a bit until she relaxed and I didn't have to take her home how she was. She agreed. After I took her home, I did not give her any attention, just put on my favorite tunes. I said goodbye to her. Pretty sure the fuckbuddy thing is over, so I have ceased contact.

It was really really good while it lasted. Easily the hottest broad I've been with and one of the only blondes (I'm Latino). I don't care much, but I'd be down to keep that relationship going if she comes back, but I'm going to have to tell her she won't keep doing that with me. Otherwise, a real fun time.

Title	Monday Field Report Thread 12/29/14
Author	TI69
Upvotes	14
Comments	12
Date	December 29, 2014 11:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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