Dear TRP,

There was a recent post that attempted to shame or maybe discredit MGTOW and these are my thoughts on it. please do not take personally, i'm just seeing if my input is welcome to our community.

I do what I because its what I prefer, I am not someone who subscribes to a particular group nor am I a person who lets a group tell me what I should do. I do not identify or claim to speak for the MGTOW guys or another group here. This is also my first post and that is the end of my disclaimers.

That being said I do what I prefer not because I am judging someone else or myself, but because I prefer it. I don't have to rationalize what I do, I just let it happen because I am free. I don't have to point the finger at someone else who is doing something else and judge them, because it takes away from my freedom if I judge someone. Ill explain...

I could be doing what I prefer but if I judge someone else I have to stop doing what I prefer. So I stop doing what I could be doing, the thing I prefer, and then descend into the ego too rationalize what they are doing that threatens me and why its wrong. The Next step is to attack them and this whole process STOPS ME FROM DOING WHAT I PREFER IN THE FIRST PLACE. it takes away my freedom.

The simple truth is you will never be free until you give everyone else their freedom.

Judging others takes you away from the freedom you have, while at the same time you are taking freedom from the persons you judge, but in your mind only. you will notice they keep on being free and doing what they were doing regardless of what your thoughts are, so you really only hurt yourself.

If what you prefer is so freaking awesome, and it should be if you prefer it, then go do it! when an athlete is in the ZONE he doesn't have time to worry about what other people are doing, he is in the fucking zone, in the moment, focused, following his excitement and doing what he prefers. He is in a sense, enlightened, and time seems to slow down, and things just seem to happen. "I just got in position, took the shot and it went in" is the post game interview, and all you athletes know what i'm talking about.

Don't waste your time judging someone else because secretly you are doing what you do not prefer and need to rationalize other options because of the cognitive dissonance. I mean you are just making excuses not to look into something logically, that is what you are doing.

YOU COULD LOOK DEEPER INSIDE AND FIND OUT WHAT YOU PREFER, but ego hates that and it feels like the world is going to end so it prefers distraction. "Well I Believe this thing makes my choice better because blah blah blah blah blah." Its just a belief in your head, you rationalized it, its not true, and this particular post I was referring to was about how MGTOW are just rationalizing. Its a great example of the idea of mirroring and projection BTW, and this is not a criticism. this sort of thing happens all the time.

To me if some one wishes to use TRP to distract themselves with pussy, if that's what they prefer that is fucking amazing. If they use TRP for a slightly different preference that is is equally amazing. There is nothing wrong with distraction. If a MGTOW wants to go full monk mode, FANTASTIC! Some Blooper wants to be a cuckold, great for him! All choices are valid. I don't have to look at what other people are doing to validate my own choices, and if you do have to do that, then you are not doing what you prefer. You are rationalizing what you are doing and avoiding looking deeper inside to see what you really prefer. There is nothing wrong with that either, egoic consciousness is a valid choice, distraction is valid as well, Tho in terms of TRP I think that rationalizing & judgement and living in ego, and distraction are towards the beta spectrum of activities.

Alpha ape doesn't have time to worry about how many bananas a beta got, he doesn't rationalize why he gets his bananas differently, he does not have doubts, worries, and fears nagging him, he doesn't call group meetings to look for validation for his ideas about getting bananas, he does not talk about his feelings about the whole banana getting rat race and the fairness of it, he just goes and gets his fucking bananas which ever way he wants, fucks his preferred female and takes a nap.

last note... what you prefer may change, usually, from moment to moment so just stick with what ever excites you, and if its rationalizing and pointing fingers, that is a valid choice, is it not? You could of course just Step off the Wheel, have a nice day!

love ya, Mao A