To men who expect women to act super feminine all the time, how do you expect women to handle other people's aggression?

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lollygagyo · 2016-08-29T16:10:45+00:00

You can be feminine and assertive/aggressive. You can even be physically aggressive and feminine (think a slap rather than a punch and how they code in terms of gender). It's doable.

I'm very empathetic (often towards people who aren't empathetic towards me) and have trained myself to be very assertive. Would still be described as hyperfeminine irl by most people.

[deleted] · 2016-08-29T16:55:12+00:00

I'm not sure I understand the question.

I've never once said I expect women to all be supplicating and submissive to everyone. Frankly, my wife was on the wrestling team in HS, played softball and baseball, and grew up with three brothers. I have full confidence that if it came down to it, she may lose a one on one brawl with a larger guy, but he would at least walk away with a permanent limp.

I very much like the fact that I know my wife can handle herself. I didn't marry some frail flower at all. One of our running jokes is we work so well together because we both realize if we start throwing punches, we'll both get hurt. LOL

So, I don't get your question because having the ability to take names and kick ass does NOT cancel out the ability to also be feminine. I'm fairly sure if it came down to it, my wife could kick ass wearing a dress and heels, and still look lady(ish) doing it. As much as a woman can look lady like while curb stomping a fool.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2016-08-29T15:47:46+00:00

who cares what women do when faced with aggression. what does this have t do with TRP, PPD or TBP. TRP is not how women should be. go be aggressive

Title	To men who expect women to act super feminine all the time, how do you expect women to handle other people's aggression?
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Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	August 29, 2016 3:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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