I've been living at home with my girlfriend for about a month now as we're both working from home. Looking for some advice as the dynamic is starting to change in a way I don't like.

Lately, she has been "tasking" me with little things like taking out the trash, and doing little things to help her cook, etc. I think this is mostly fair, as she does the majority of the housework, but I don't like it as I know I should be the one leading the relationship, and see how this could turn sour if I don't handle it now.

I do all of the driving, fixing, killing spiders, etc. The man stuff. She certainly does quite a bit of cooking/ cleaning and we both work, so I want to be the leader here, but a fair one.

What would be the best way to handle this situatio