This TED talk got me thinking. I have linked to the relevant part (right up until "a fit of mild irritation") but the whole keynote is worth a listen:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D9Ihs241zeg&feature=youtu.be&t=652

If you are TRP: what positive examples can you think of when asked about feminists?

If you are BP: what positive examples can you think of when asked about red pillers?