Synopsis

This is an easy to follow guide on perfecting the art of First Dates. I've used this exact method and scored 3 first date lays in one month. My hope is that other people experience similar results using my method. I give exact reasoning and strategies to set up your date without breaking the bank. I've also included some out of the box tips for the more clever red pillers, and fun trivia for the curious.

Step One - The Set Up

One key factor in achieving the perfect first date is making sure the woman you are seducing has an interest in you. My guide will not teach how to win over potential prospects, but rather will emphasize the ease of capitalizing on guaranteed lovers. Some ways to gauge a woman's interest are the following: 1.) Is she willing to be alone with you? 2.) Does she initiate communication with you? 3.) When she communicates, does she use one word responses, or does her mouth run like a motor? 4.) When you touch her, does she recoil or does she enjoy and reciprocate?

There was this girl ion my college communication class, a real hottie, and I won her over by a performance I gave at an open mic night for slam poetry. After that she was always trying to initiate conversation with me. I was still new to the game so I was too shy to speak with her for almost 6 months, but I eventually found the courage to get her number and start something new.

Now that you've found a woman who's interested in you, the next step is gaming her into going on a date with you. I was never one to have good verbal game. My approach is being a man of few words - the mysterious type. When texting, I was always direct and to the point. My first text would be a greeting along with some kind of emotionally spiking non-sense. Something like, "Hey girl, I just got out of prison!" Or something like that. She'd then respond which would lead to my next line, "I want to see you sometime, when are you free next week?" After this response you may get stone walled, she may throw a shit test at you, so be prepared with some clever rebuttals. I personally was never stone walled, and always received a direct answer. Once I was told what day they were free, I said "Great, let's meet at X time and do Y, I'll pick you up. They'll typically agree, however sometimes the girl might be reluctant to be picked up and would rather opt to meet with you at a public location. This is okay, but has never happened to me, I was always able to pick the woman up from their house. So the girl will say that the plan sounds good and then you ask her for her address and boom, the date is set. Oh wait, how do we make sure it's a dater and not a platonic, just-friends meet up? Simple, I put my intentions on the table immediately by saying "Make sure you wear some pretty underwear." This has provoked a shit test 2 out of the 3 times I've done this, but I was able to banter effectively. I advise you prepare yourselves for potential shit tests that could be thrown at you.

When setting up your plan, I recommend this set-up to the date. 1.) Go to a pub with pool tables, 2.) Go to McDonalds and buy ice cream, 3.) Go somewhere you can walk and talk, 4.) Go to your house. This location set-up will be explained in detail in later steps.

After you've set up the date, go no-contact! That means no texting no calling no contact at all until the date of the day arrives. You're a busy man with no time to spare when it comes to idle chit-chat. One benefit to no-contact is the woman will be left to wonder and create fantasies in her mind about you and your scheduled date. Another great benefit is by not talking with you, you won't have the opportunity to talk yourself out of sleeping with her. I see it all the time, a girl likes a guy but the more the guy runs his mouth the less the girl wants to sleep with him until he's completely cock-blocked himself. Save your talking for the date itself.

(Machiavellian Tip) An hour before the date, text her saying you will be 15 minutes late. This is is a simple way to 1.) Ensure the date is still a-go, and 2.) create an air of mystery as she wonders why you were late.

Step Two - The Early Date

So the day has arrived and you're driving to her house to pick her up. When you arrive get out of your car and knock on her door/ring the doorbell. I know in the digital age it might be tempting to send her a simple "I'm Here" Text, but by doing so you lose a perfect opportunity for some early kino (physical contact for you noob red pillers.) After you ring her doorbell and she opens the door, say hi and give her a chest to chest hug, one arm around her upper back and the other hand around the small of her back. Give it a few seconds then pull away and look into her eyes, "let's have a great time today." You've no set up the mood and established physical contact as a regular part of who you are, which leaves room for you to escalate in the future.

When you get into the car, place one of your hands on her knee or upper thigh, and keep it there for the duration of the car ride. If she appears uncomfortable, pat her knee or thigh and remove your hand from her being. Make conversation with her - my strategy is to get her talking, so I ask a lot of questions. My conversations consist of me talking 20% of the time, and her talking 80% of the time. I only talk when I'm asking questions or saying something witty or smart-allacky.

So now you've arrived at your favorite pub, it's time to play pool! I setup my dates in the afternoon, when pubs are more likely to be empty, to avoid any potential AMOGing (alpha male of the group) and cock-blocking/distractions.

(Machiavellian Tip) Invest in your favorite pub. That means become a regular so the staff remembers you. Be a big tipper so you get privileged servicing. When the staff knows you by name and greets you, and serves you first, this is a huge bonus to your social proof. By having status at your local pub, your date will feel more at ease, as you have been socially proven to be liked by other people. This also gives you the halo effect and causes her to like you more, because other people like you so you must be good people.

Pool should cost about a dollar to play so go crazy. Sometime during the game, I recommend "showing her the moves," or in more detailed words, step behind her so your crotch is pressed against her ass and guide her hands from behind her to show her the correct way to hold a pool cue. If pool isn't your thing, choose another physical sport where you can show her how to play like bowling or mini gold. I remember feeling the sexual tension building up when I was showing my dates how to play pool. Don't be afraid of physicality. If you look at alpha males, they are never afraid to get physical and touch others. Infact, they love doing it.

After you finish playing pool, invite her to dance if your pub plays music. You don't gotta be the best at it, just take her hand and spin her around, or lift her in the air and spin around. The whole point is to establish physicality and get her comfortable with your touch, and to have a fun time.

By now she should be accustomed to your touch, and if at any point you experience resistance to your physical advances, it may be time to beat some shit tests, it may be time to give with draw and try again later, or it may be time to cut your date short and chalk one up to experience. I'll leave that to your discretion.

Step 3 - The Mid Date

Now that you've had your fun playing pool at your favorite pub, it's time to go get a yummy snack for a low cost. Ice-cream! I grab to vanilla cones from McDonald's for me and my girl. Stay in the store and eat the food there, and banter back and forth with your date. Once you finish your ice-creams, take her somewhere you can walk around and talk. I prefer going to a scenic cliff in my town and talking to my girl while I look at the view. Now that you're walking and talking, it's time to get bold. The next time you say something funny and make her laugh, or you give her an emotional spike of some kind, smack her ass. Gauge her response, see if she recoils and tells you not to do that, or see if she giggles happily at your action. I've tried this 3 times and all 3 times they've laughed and brushed against me or pushed me away in a joking manner.

The idea behind taking her to multiple venues is a psychological hack that by hanging out with her in multiple areas, it makes her think she knows you better and that she's known you longer. It also makes her more likely to have sex with you.

Step 4 - The Late Date

Now that you've had your fun in town, it's time to head back to your place. Come up with some excuse to get her back to your place. Me personally I say "come over, you gotta meet my pack of wolves I got in my house." Of course you could always go with the direct approach and say "come on over to my place, let's share a drink," because of course at your house you have a stash of alcohol for moments just like this one, right? Get yourself a booze stash! It gives women the perfect reason to sleep with you because it frees them of feeling slutty for sleeping gwith a guy they just met. Drinks essentially defeat ASD (anti-slut defense) and LMR (last minute resistance) before it even begins.

Share a couple of drinks with her and get her talking some more. You want her to be in a good mood before you make your final moves, so keep conversation light and fun. It's okay to get dark, but not when you're about to seal the deal.

After you've had a couple drinks, move the party to wherever you've got a TV. Put on some Netflix and watch some shows. Tell her to cuddle with you as you watch the show. Once the episode finishes, say something to her. I choose to say, "you remind me of X character on the show," she'd say "why" and I say "you just do." After you say that, look into her eyes and at her lips for a few seconds, then go in for a kiss. Let that kiss last a few seconds and make sure you are the first to pull away. After the kiss is done look into her eyes for a few more seconds. From here it can go one of two places. Either 1.) You relax back into cuddling and watching TV, or 2.) You start making out and rubbing her body all over. I tend to opt for number 2 because I don't like taking things slow.

Once you start making out with your girl, get your hands to move up and down her body. Caress her legs and her thighs. Brush her boobs while she still has her clothes on. Rub your fingers on her pussy on top of her jeans. See how far she lets you go. Walk with her or carry her to your bedroom. Eventually clothes will start coming off and I take it you know what to do from there.

(Machiavellian Tip) Buy a pair of panties from a store, or take a pair of your Ex's panties like I do, and place it on the floor at the corner of your bed. When your current girl finds these panties, she will assume you've been getting busy with another girl, and now you suddenly have extreme pre-selection going for you. I personally used a pair of panties that belonged to one of my exes and it made my current girl jealous.

And there you have it! The perfect first date. I thank you for reading my post and I pray for your success in your dastardly endeavors.