I’m a sophomore in college, I just went though fall rush. I had 2 friends in the fraternity I rushed, who said they would help me get a bid. I’m in general shitty at making good first impressions with people, I grow on people over time.

My buddy rushed at the same time as me, got in. Granted I went one less day than everyone else, because I had something going on.

My friend in the fraternity said only 5 people stood up for me, I probably talked to 20-25 people. At least

1-should I rerush, I feel like if I do It’s not worth it I’m missing out on the best times of being in a fraternity

2- how do I improve my social game as in making small talk ?