If you truly want a high value man, and you value brain power as much as I do, work on yourself. Become well read.

I wanted to give you an example from my day yesterday of what I mean as this is something I have been working on. Because if you met me, an unemployed 36 year old single mom of two teenagers, who is 80 pounds overweight, you might be wondering why I have been dating a doctor who is incredibly fit and handsome who is 6 years younger than me. That's right ladies, I have a boy toy. But why me? Why am I so lucky?

I am intelligent and well read.

This means that I am an asset to my boyfriend and not a liability.

Parts of our conversation yesterday: ... What is the 3 most common deadly cancers? Lung, melanoma and pancreatic. I got 3/3, he got 2/3. Who can read this super complicated medical paragraph and decipher what it means? I smoked him. This MMA/womens boxing match was fought in Abu Dhabi, what county is that? The United Arab Emirates of course.

Of course he got a lot right too, he is incredibly smart, hard working, and well read. But having someone who he can bounce ideas off of, keep up in a technical conversation, and can catch his mistakes or even offer better solutions is something that he knows will make his life not only better but more intresting.

I read the news every day, I read up on his profession and read a few science journal articles. I learn about culture, history, science, geography, art, philosophy etc. I read up on finance, regulations and policies for his field, and how to write well, that way I can give him high quality advice to advance his career.

3 years today and couldn't be happier.