Hi all, this situation has happened to me quite a few times now and it just happened again.

I tease all my friends, and the girls I talk to, and they all tease me back it's all good. However I think sometimes I say or do something really rude without noticing because I've noticed that every few months or so an incident happens where one of my friends or girls I talk to gets mad at me and I have no idea why.

In the past I used to try to talk about it, ask why they're mad, use logic and apologize and this never really worked as the conversations were surprisingly overcomplicated by them (like not answering my questions, staying mad even though I clearly don't even understand why tf etc) and in the end even when it's resolved I always felt like a little bitch for apologizing for something so stupid lol.

Anyway it's been a while but it just happened again now with this girl I recently met. Obviously my usual approach is out of the question. So how should I deal with this? She sent me a few angry texts and so far I've been laughing at her but I feel really mean lmao.

I'm thinking of going no contact for a while now until she calms down and then see if I can laugh my way through this. This sounds like the only possible approach tbh. What do you guys think?

I don't mind that much if I fail and lose the girl but what's REALLY important to me is to know 1) why this happens with people and 2) the best way to deal with it, and finally 3) why tf would my approach work if it does lol. Like it seems to me that it'd make it 10x worse but I also know it's the kinda stuff trp would pull off. Could someone explain me this shit? I was diagnosed with Asperger's when I was young, maybe it's why I sound so retarded rn and am in this situation in the first place lmao. Anyway fire away boys, I need help here.