After a string of questionable posts lately, I will try to redeem myself with a more helpful post. My plate inspired me to write this "article", you could say. I've written plenty of PUA shit focused on really dumb broads, and since I'm having more fun with this girl than any girl in long time, I thought she deserved, no was owed a post to written in response to her than most of the girls I've slept with, so far. Only thing is, I've stopped calling her a plate.

Ever spun a REAL plate before? Hard isn't it? Should girls really be that difficult to keep, if we interpret the plate metaphor literally? No, I believe if they have to be THAT difficult to not break, then they can't be worth it. And thats why I have stopped calling girls I sleep with, plates--and have instead, started using a more balanced analogy, Spinning FIRE. Thats right, we're still spinning. But we're spinning something more easy to keep lit, less likely to just break-- instead, fire diminishes by burning. Until there is no more on the fire poy. The fire poy is the torch like item people use to spin fire. It burns down like a fuse. That means, it lasts longer, and doesn't just break all of a sudden like plates do. Not only that, but while plate spinning, in the literal sense, uses many plates at once, several, all at the same time spinning, real fire spinning often uses only one or two fire poys with fire on the fuse like area.

You don't have to focus on spinning 8 plates, you can spin two flames, and when one flame goes out, you have the other one, still burning a little more before going out. But where plates are really hard to put back together (unless you're Walter White), fire poys can be re lit, reignited with more fire to spin. If I'm being perfectly honest, I use to use the term "plate" like everyone else in this category on the internet. However, after breaking two plates within one day last October and November, only having a one night stand, never for them to return-- I named a new plate I earned in January of 2015, my flame.

She keeps coming back to me, and she's the one who actually took me out to a fire spinning gathering. She spun fire, I did not on the first day, as they would only let me practice. We were also drunk on Black Velvet whiskey, and did dabs from weed, so we were cross faded as well. I eventually got to spin fire at her place, and it was quite the experience. I can't see spinning plates to be more fun than fire spinning. It might be an adrenaline rush at first, releasing the dopamine, but it wouldn't be the same as the feeling of spinning fire. I even explained to this girl, that as friends with benefits, I think of her like spinning fire. The flame might go out, or it might last a long time. No guarantees on anything so live in the moment, I tell her.

And even if you're just seeing one other girl, thats fine. You don't need to be sleeping with 8 girls at once. You can be fine with one or two, and even open the possibility of a long term relationship with one of them. If thats what you're into. Hell, have two flames you're spinning? You don't even need to be sleeping with both of them. Just talking to the other girl, will instill enough jealousy, enough competition anxiety to keep her on her toes. They don't have to even be lit at the same time. With less girls to focus on not breaking, you can let one or two flames go out when they're ready.