To not give off my identity, I'm going to mix some things around, but here it goes. Yesterday I ordered a 'cake' at my local 'bakery'. The cashier said "Oh, you're a cutie!" I said.."Heh..thanks, I had to look when you turned around as well..shit." She followed my response with a.."Well..i'm here everyday all the time so..". Me being the dumbass I was, I immediately paid for my cake, and left. I should of followed that up by asking for her number huh? I'm a freaking mess, I kind of blushed as i'm not normally complimented like that as a man, so it threw me off my game. My question is..when should I go back and get their number? When I buy a 'cake' again? Tomorrow? Today? half a month from now?

I think coming back the next day to chat her up is plain creepy, and would be rapey. I'm thinking..two weeks from now, order a cake again, and ask for them digits then? It's only 5 minutes out of the way from my local gym. I want to practice my abundance mindset, but also be cold. To go back anytime soon would be desperate, but I definitely missed my window to ask for those digits. It's not like she's going to forget about me, I couldn't give less of a shit. I'm hoping someone experienced could help me out here.