Ideally, we want to be with the girls who actually want us. The power dynamic is in our favor and we are able to get more of the best out of her.

But is it worth going after girls who want us to want her first? They typically play games and behave in a withholding manner to keep us wanting more. For guys whose SMV is capped out at 7.5-8 or who are in the process of raising it up by improving themselves, is it even worth talking to these girls if the power shift is in their favor from the get go? People in r/asktrp typically say next and then there are others who upvote comments that say be persistent. Maybe the answer is it depends. But I’m just curious what most people’s thoughts are on this.