Hello friends, I had a quick story I wanted to share with you. About 3 years I was talking to some chick on Bumble. She was decent looking but this is before I found the red pill and was not as informed as I am now. She was in her mid to late 30s and the proud owner of a child that she was raising on her own as a single mother. This did not stop me as we continued to talk a bit online. As I remember it, we ended up bumping into eachother at a local bar. I followed up with her after and she let me know that she now had a boyfriend and that she was not interested, etc. I remember thinking it was odd that she went from chatting with me to being this tied up with a boyfriend so quickly but whatever, I wished her luck and possibly said something along the lines of hit me up if it does not work out.

A while later, somehow I reached out to her, maybe a drunk text, or seeing a random number in my phone in the old texts and she let me know she was still with her boyfriend and how amazing it was. Terrific!

I deleted the number and forget that she existed. Fast forward about 3 years to present day and I see I matched with some chick who is listed as 41 years old. Holy shit! 41 years old? What an old ancient relic of a woman she is but still surprisingly decent looking in her pics.

I thought she looked somewhat familiar but could not figure out where I knew her from. Suddenly I get a message with her saying my name emphatically with several exclamation points.

I responded, do I know you? She says "we used to chat before I got a boyfriend, but we broke up now"

hmm. I thought. So I asked her what happened. She told me that he ex boyfriend owned a gym and was cheating on her with a "much younger girl from his gym"

Ya dont say! is what I thought. So a single mom in her late 30s who was still chasing after Chad got cheated on with a younger woman? Now I dont mean to be a dick but I must admit I had a heck of a laugh to myself when she told me that.

She goes on to tell me about how it has been a learning experience and get this: she is writing a book! Wow! What a unique and special story you have here! I am sure this book will be flying off of the shelves as certainly now late 30s single mom has ever been cheated on by Chad!

So at this moment I realized that she was thinking to herself that she probably needs to lower her expectations and here is the guy from a few years ago who was interested in me, she is surely interested in me now, right? WRONG.

I am good. I am not interested in a 41 year old single mom coming off a rebound who was cheated on by Chad. As she continued to message me I put my phone down and went to sleep without replying to whatever nonsense she was saying.

I am very happy that I have the understanding to see what is going on here instead thinking she was some prize that I would have a chance with.

Dont get me wrong, I Would let her blow me and maybe even fuck her but I will not make any effort and part of me does not even want to give her the satisfaction of me trying to see, contact, or interact with her at all.

If she says anything else to me I may just go out of my way to let her know that I am only interested in being her friend (I dont really want to be her friend) just to drive her crazy and establish that I am not her bounce back beta fag.

writing a book lol