So I matched this girl and we decided to go out for a drink. Problem is, I’ve been off alcool for a bit now and I don’t want to drink just because I’m on a date.

Two issues:

1) half the girls I slept with I had enough drinks to be ballsy enough to do what needed to be done. I know, very beta. So I’m also happy to try this sober and manage to fuck this girl sober would be a pretty big achievement.

2) if she drinks and I don’t it’s looks like I want to get her drunk. If I explain I have a problem with alcool then it’s just showing weakness. I don’t really know how to handle it. The culture here is “you don’t drink, you are a weirdo, freak, loser”