So I was laying in my bed with my gf and I was making the usual moves to start fucking and after that she just stopped me and told me that she’s on her period. I was like ’Okay, you wanna blow me then?’ which she usually has said always yes to. This time she said ’I might soon just give me a minute’ while she laid on my chest. After a while of laying in my chest she said ’I’m really not in the mood, do I have to?’ To which I replied it’s fine.

Not wanting to blow me once in a while is fine. But I rarely ask her for it and the last time I asked for it she was hesitant as well. So that’s 2 times out of 2 whereas she used to blow me always earlier in the LTR and when we were dating and offered them herself.

So I applied dread, went to pack my gym bag and told her that I can drop her off at her place in 15 minutes. Then she told me that she can tell me that I’m upset to which I replied that it’s fine but that I don’t think it’s good if she doesn’t like to do things that make me feel good. Then she bursted into tears and I had to handle her.

Overall she has also shit tested me more and has went borderline disrespectful with me. But she has also needed some comfort at times when some girls have tried to chat me up. So I don’t know what to do, dread or comfort?