Need TRP advice on LTR

Fromstatepharm · 2019-12-02T23:28:54+00:00

You may want a ltr rn but I suppose the “red pill” road to take would be to keep dating and gaining attraction from her until she decides to bring it up herself. Otherwise, you won’t necessarily be able to have the leverage needed for getting the relationship you want.

GayLubeOil · 2019-12-03T00:46:41+00:00

From a woman's perspective a college relationship is an opportunity to trade her vagina for relationship drama that she can share with her friends.

Don't take it too seriously either way. Either ask her out or don't. It's all a silly joke either way.

RedLegendx · 2019-12-02T23:33:59+00:00

So you caught oneitis and want to lock her down, that’s your first mistake.

Let her ask you that she wants commitment no matter how long it takes, as soon as you start giving boyfriend vibes you’ll scare her away, just keep having fun and hooking up.

plxxx · 2019-12-03T00:06:12+00:00

Commitment is her issue not yours

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-12-03T00:23:38+00:00

I'm 27 currently university, I just met this girl

Whoa there. You need to vet her carefuly at least 4 months, preferably 6 and be fucking other women during that time.

You're putting a real short fuse on even considering an LTR. You're risking blowing yourself right the fuck up.

Look, if your goal is to have an LTR and eventually kids and family, there's nothing wrong with that.

You just need understand that the majority of women her age simply aren't good LTR material for a variety of reasons. Mainly it tends to be in women's nature to favor short term imediate gains. Too easy for them to think maybe they have lots of better options when they get bored or frustrated.

I'm in a situation now where she thinks that I'm not serious about her.

And you shouldn't be, yet. Unicorns do not exist.

She needs to prove to you that she's not only serious about you, but is actually worth your precious time, regard, and commitment.

I've been with other girls and I just want to be in a relationship right now.

Impatience and laziness are a man's greatest enemies. Beware of them.

The more often you're willing to say "not right now" to people the sooner the crazy tends to show it's face.

You wouldn't feel like you needed to jump into a relationship after just one or two meetings if you had other good options.

At the moment she's unsure about trusting me again mainly because I'm afraid to show true interest

Ooopsie. You paid too much attention to what a woman said. Should listen a lot more to her actions.

You don't need her to "trust" you. You only need her to come over when you ask, follow your leadership, qualify herself to you, and fuck you good. Either she follows your leadership or she doesn't.

Remember women don't usually have a problem fucking guys they don't trust. It's only men that tend to have that issue, i.e. performance anxiety.

Tousen71 · 2019-12-03T01:31:48+00:00

Let her ask for things to become official, say “yes” and go from there.

svenfromaccounting · 2019-12-03T02:04:18+00:00

If she "really likes you" then she will keep coming back. She will call you often. You will keep hanging out.

If you she stopped talking to you after you ghosted her once then thats not quite the same.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-12-03T01:35:10+00:00

RP advice would be to only enter an LTR with a woman that is begging you for it, and to vet her as a plate for some time first. If you’re not plating her and she’s not begging for your commitment, it wouldn’t be an RP LTR and you may be the B side

himanshudash · 2019-12-03T06:09:58+00:00

redpill tools for bluepill goals....lol

Title	Need TRP advice on LTR
Author	hax34123
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	December 2, 2019 11:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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