I’m young, 21 yrs old and am still pretty new to TRP. Oddly enough, I used to shit on you guys quite often years ago until it happened to me with a 3 year relationship. It was like a RP’d slap in the face. I remembered everything you guys said, the stuff I’d scoff at...the math of it all came together.

So this is where I’m at now. It’s been 2-3 years since that girl and I haven’t been in another relationship. For much of that time, I was in doomer mode, but have been rejecting that mentality. I’m gonna be better than this. I’d like to go out and practice game, but I know that I’m not a prize right now. I’m not fit, don’t have a lot of money, I don’t have many Chad qualities. But I know this can be cultivated.

Frame is the big thing I’ve been working on and it’s astonishing the results I’ve been getting. Currently spinning a girl I knew in high school and her best friend, they still haven’t found out I’ve been seeing them both and it’s hilariously boosted my confidence. But girls aren’t the only motivation for me, I want to become more of a leader and cultivate stronger masculine qualities.

I guess my main question is, when should I really give it my all? Like I said, I’m not a prize right now, my value is low. BP friends can say “just be confident” all they want, I don’t have a low self esteem, im just giving an honest reflection of myself. I’m not upset with the fact that I’m not a full on Chad, I’m motivated to become better than I am and that’s what matters.

tl;dr: When was your “tipping point” where you felt enough like a prize to actually get out there and practice game? Was it a breakthrough moment for you or did you just gradually get practice?