How do you build better male friendships?

jajahhssgxka · 2019-12-22T22:37:20+00:00

Male friendships are built around performing a similar activity together.

RPNorvell · 2019-12-22T22:38:12+00:00

bring something to the table

ceilingsky95 · 2019-12-22T23:13:20+00:00

It's simple.

Do you like coding? Are you a GOD at coding? Show a bunch of similar dudes that.. then ask them for drinks.

Don't overthink socializing. If you do, it will be noticed. Just be a cool cat and attract cool dudes..

Better to be alone (and successful) than with a bunch of losers. Focus on you first, friends later.

throwaway33221yyy · 2019-12-22T23:58:47+00:00

Have similar SMVs in a certain area.

Men higher or lower than you aren't your friends. They're either mentees or mentors, or if you're a daft cunt, exploiters on both ends trying to get something else from you.

That means if you lift, you're making connections with dudes at the gym who lift around your stats (if you're not a BBer). If you're a BBer you're making nections with dudes with similar physiques. If you're juiced, you're necting with other dudes that juice -- as long as you both look like you juice.

Look for signals, faggot. Find common ground.

He dress and groom well? You dress and groom well? Your dressing and grooming portions of SMV are similar, chat him up.

He run a few online side gigs to make cash, you run a few side gigs who make cash? Chat him up.

You both in the top of a certain uni class? Chat him up.

Then you both grow from there as you learn shit from one another in your specific field.

But you gotta be equals. If your SMV is low you don't bring shit to the table and he's going to think you're not worth the time or you're trying to get shit from him. Coincidentally, it's the same reason you don't go at lower SMV dudes, cuz they'll add nothing to your life (they gotta come to you to be a mentee).

Shit gets thrown on its head if you both have different SMVs in diff catevories (looks, charm, money, whatever). If you're in a higher category than him in some category like money, but he's in a higher category in something like charm, then you can trade some money game for his charm game. Give and take. Equivaleny exchange. Symbiosis. Positive sum game theory shit where you both benefit and raise each other up in your strengths.

Feel?

Title	How do you build better male friendships?
Author	throwaway33221yyy
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	December 22, 2019 10:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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