How do y’all hear anything at bars and clubs ? Lol it’s not my type of vibe I usually prefer more relaxed places like lounges and restaurants with lower music, not completely relaxed but like something to an extent you can actually hear the person without having to shout in their ear.

Anyway, curious if anyone has any trouble with this too. Every time I’m at one of those places and talk to a girl I feel like I’m deaf because it turns awkward as They repeat themselves 2-3x before I grasp what they’re saying. Sometimes even worse like the other day the waitress repeated herself 3x before she simply gave up.

Not to mention, it’s even hard to have an actual conversation .. I noticed this the other day while I was looking at 2 ppl and they were just bouncing off whole conversations 1 by 1 while they took turns to shout in each others’ ears. It looked pretty freakin weird lol