Embarrased orbiter

PrettyBarbiePerson · 2020-01-01T10:19:04+00:00

Just use it as a learning tool

PeautyBrinciple · 2020-01-01T10:37:26+00:00

We've all been there mate. Just be thankful you've actually caught yourself because many men don't even realise.

RedLegendx · 2020-01-01T10:18:44+00:00

There’s no need to be embarrassed, everyone starts from the bottom unless you were a natural.

Now stop orbiting this chick and cut her off completely.

Mr_Badass · 2020-01-01T18:22:40+00:00

Be proud that you recognize that you were an orbiter and move on.

IATAsshole · 2020-01-01T10:47:01+00:00

You stop being embarrassed by being better.

OfficerWade · 2020-01-01T11:52:27+00:00

Good question. And I won’t be the first person to answer this as you will see most of these questions are all the same. When the voice in this case, your chatterbox, shitty committee or whatever that part of your psyche is telling you just talk back and say things like yeah I might have made some mistakes but I’m perfectly imperfect.

Moreover don’t let a single rejection speak for all of women.

muricanwerewolf1 · 2020-01-01T18:54:44+00:00

It’s alright dude. One thing missing here at TRP is acknowledging that even when you’ve read the sidebar, you’ve started your journey, it’s not all roses. You are going to feel bad. You are going to fail, even when you’re trying. You will make mistakes that seem obvious in hindsight. You will feel like a beta bitch at times. It’s all ok. Judge yourself by your progress, and know that your growth is going to be defined by failure, because of you didn’t fail, then you’d never have needed TRP at all, right?

And if it makes you feel better, I’m pretty sure I had a total blowout with a girl I had been working on too. Last time I saw her she kissed me, but I think showing up at the bar she hangs out at alone and then tagging along with her and her friends put out beta vibes I couldn’t recover from. Soft next, no butthurt.

A bit of advice, don’t be freaked out by having shown your hand and being turned down. Treat her like a buddy you genuinely like. Showing you’re not phased by rejection is high value. Abundance mentality is not tying your ego to the opinion of a woman.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-01-01T21:24:03+00:00

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Title	Embarrased orbiter
Author	Towaway1001
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	January 1, 2020 10:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/eigwj2/embarrased_orbiter/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/embarrased-orbiter.304005 https://theredarchive.com/post/304005

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