So nice and brief context.

  • met girl from different city in bar 2/3 weeks ago, nothing major

  • when leaving she asked for social media, cool

  • kept in very brief contact, until she said back again for new years in my city

  • went out as part of a group (with friends), ended up smashing, success

  • next day went out with them again (group of 5 of us)

  • any conversation attempt was almost nipped in the bud as was on phone, spent time talking to her other friend

  • after New years, excused myself and left

  • message straight away from her hoping I get home safe etc, just replied "thanks, you too" ; then the stupid shit started coming in so I ignored

  • I woke up to another message asking did I get home safe, ignored

  • then was tagged in 2 Instagram stories, ignored

  • sent another 2 WhatsApp photos (no diddlers) and shit like "if you don't laugh at this we're not talking again 😂"

  • then sent a longer message just with shit like "just wanted to say was great to see you again and had great time etc, thanks for spending time with me etc etc"

Do I just ignore all the stupid shit? I presume as another commenter mentioned just something nice and short is best way forward?