I've been following TRP for about 1.5 years. I discovered it while in an LTR, but obviously I was blue-pilled then. In January 2018, I broke up with her and decided that I would have fun, spin plates, and learn more about sexuality and relationships. It's a year later - I have done all of that plus more.

During the time I met a certain girl. She's like a 6.5 to me; not super hot but definitely above average. Consistent sex, she's totally in my frame, and checks most of the green-flag boxes. The only downside is that we haven't really experienced major conflict; financial hardship, death of a close relative, etc. So I dont know how she handles depressing situations. Still, she has been asking for commitment lately, which has caused me to think.

Admittedly I am at the point where spinning plates/dating around doesn't appeal to me as much anymore. I was on a date last week, for example, and realized that I wasn't enjoying it. She was cute, we had a good time, etc. But it was too easy. Like going through the motions. Besides, I just started a high-paying job, I have major things happening regarding my hobbies, and I want some consistency in my life. Therefore, I am seriously considering LTRing the 6.5 who I've known for awhile.

If i decide to commit to her, what is the best way of doing that? We have spent considerable time together lately. We have met some of each others friends and family. It has all happened naturally. So do I just stop dating other women, and tell her so? Or what? This is my first time doing this since discovering TRP, so I appreciate input.