For those following me a bit, like one or two people here hahaha, I'm in Brazil to escape the Canadian winter. Also waiting before Europe warms up a bit to ship the Wrangler to Belgium. I need a friend. So I post here.

  1. I dated a girl (on/off for two years), but something felt off. Her actions didn't match her talk. She was all about loving me verbally but that was it. Things were getting serious. But my gut feeling told me something wasn't right. I logged into my tinder profile and saw her... RIGHT THERE! Lesson #1: good girls aren't good girls. They really do wanna fuck. Even if they say they want to take their time. This is a very basic thing, but I never experimented it first person like I did now.

  2. I met a nice girl. She thinks I am the best and the chemistry is incredible but she has a boyfriend. She would love to be with me but she doesn't break with her man, giving various excuses (financial one is the main). It's bullshit: If you want to be with someone, you make it happen. This whole "Canadian Plan B thing" is utterly bullshit, but I experimented that MANY times in Brazil. Also, she wants to quit her boyfriend to be with me: How is that making me feel? A younger version of me would have been "Oh great!". Now it's like, "oh, so...next time you meet someone NICER than me, you're just going to go away haha!?" Yep.

I love this country so much. The culture is great. The women here (well, depends: But Floripa, Sao Paulo, Natal, Brasilia) are level-headed and have the right amount of feminism (unlike Bolivia and Peru...sorry, I don't want a woman to worship me like I am a Master Of The Universe: I want someone equal. Yes, I dated girl that grew up under a very strong male-dominant society: you don't want that. It is fun for a week. Then...it gets boring. Give me an entrepreneur, a strong woman that loves to change the world. High energy. But that's ME).

There is this strong culture of going for-the-rich-man worldwide (done 5 continents), and albeit this is the case in Brazil, and yo, even more the case in North America, here it's truly IN YOUR FACE experience, more than any other country I've been. I am not shocked: It's expected (look, if you went to university 5 years only to make a $1000usd a month as a lawyer, and the cost of life being the same as Montreal, you'd maybe start looking for an escape.).

Being a red-pilled man isn't about judging, I came to realize. A year ago I would have been quick at labelling women for this and that. But you know what? Red pill theory is a river. It's malleable. Use it to get where you want, but don't drown in its tenets. Universally, most people genuinely crave for love and someone special.

My favourite culture for long term relationship is Brazil, DESPITE all the men saying the women here are just looking for a gringo. That's the case EVERYWHERE. Not a gringo, but a guy that has his shit together. I met countless of couple that had been together forever in Brazil: people genuinely want a long term relationship here. Most couple I met are 15-30 years into a marriage.

Anyway, this is all over the place. Just taking a break from writing music and drinking coffee haha.

Let's keep getting after it boys.

Cheers from the Brazilian East Coast!