I knew this girl from a decade ago when she was married and I was friends with her husband. I setup drinks at her place the other night and her kids and boyfriend were all "asleep" upstairs. Apparently he is up at 4. She sat far away from me on another couch. At some point she comes back and is wearing no bra and just a t-shirt so I can clearly see her hard nipples on her brand new tits.

I tell her to come sit with me and ask for a back massage. I offer to rub her. While she is talking and I am rubbing her neck I am pulling her pony tail with one hand and she can barely keep her train of thought and almost starts drooling. I can tell she is mine so I pick her up and put her on my lap. She does the tiniest little "no" ASD hand swat but kisses me deeply while I am grabbing her fantastic new tits. Cuck comes downstairs and she jumps off me just before he comes into the living room. We make eye contact, I say "hi" while still sitting and she follows him out of the room to deal with a "kid who might have woken up". I go and grab another glass of whiskey to wait. 5 mins later I get kicked out. I grab her for a kiss and she says no, but smirks and kisses me anyway.

What is the best way to seduce this woman and get her to want to risk losing her boyfriend to fuck me? He is obviously the stable beta plow horse (doesn't live with her) and is almost a decade older than both of us. I am 4 or 5 points higher in SMV. He is a 43 year old dude with a shitty body and I am 34 and I am under 10% bf.

She knows I cannot provide for her and can only offer tingles and dick. She has ridden the carousel post divorce and enjoys the security even if she knows he wont give her tingles like I can. When texting she said "Do you have any idea how wet I am right now? You are getting me so riled up."

I know for certain that if I could get her alone we would 100% fuck but I don't know how to escalate if she has ASD up to 11 and won't meet with me anymore. Texting is clearly just for validation and tingles but I am not able to setup a meeting. I plan to ghost her out a few weeks and hit her up to "just talk" or something else unrelated to sex.

I wanted her as a local plate as my other one lives an hour away. Is this possible now that I have been overt that my intentions are to fuck her?