examples of treating women as children?

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-10T17:22:03+00:00

I always tell them to lick my lollipop

😂

Dunno man just visualize if you’d care about the political views of a 5 year old and treat their words accordingly

red_philosopher · 2020-01-10T20:41:32+00:00

When children try to argue with you, do you get upset and argue with them? Or do you look at them and chuckle and tell them to go clean their room?

When children complain do you give in to their demands or do you make them go clean their room?

When children are sitting on their ass doing nothing, do you praise them out of nowhere for nothing at all or do you make them go clean their room?

Do you buy random expensive gifts for children?

When a child has a problem, do you fix it for them or do you guide them and have them fix it themselves?

Do you let children run rampant, or do you set expectations and enforce them?

We could go on, but I think you get the idea.

Practical-Animal · 2020-01-10T17:27:36+00:00

Uhh when a woman says buy me a drink I say no. It's like if a child asked me to buy them a juice box and i didn't want to

fannyfire · 2020-01-10T20:51:18+00:00

Wife: What did you do for lunch today?

Me: Went out to this amazing restaurant.

Me: Had a gourmet PBJ sandwich with cheese flavored potato chips. I got a glass of coconut water. The chef said the chips and coconut water were both from South America. Was absolutely fantastic.

(She forgot I packed my lunch and had some left over snacks from our trip to South America. Her: Haha

Her: That’s so great

Me: Yeah, I’d take you there but I only bring my girlfriend. I think it would be awkward for the staff if I brought someone else since I’m a regular.

Her: Very funny.

Texting should mostly be for logistics but if you do text don’t be serious unless you absolutely have to. Talking to a woman like a child doesn’t mean to dehumanize them. It just means to not be serious. Women rarely like to talk about stimulating topics so being funny, silly and making bullshit comments is the best way to communicate with them.

youcantdenythat · 2020-01-11T02:38:39+00:00

It's about keeping frame. See "What is Frame" in the side bar. It's simply a tool to help you master shit tests, etc.

It mostly helps guys who pedestalize women from doing that. If you imagine her emotional commentary as that of a child, it makes it easier not to get sucked into her frame and maintain your own. When she's insulting you in a shit test (also covered in the side bar), imagine it's a child calling you a poopy head. You don't get mad at them because what they are saying is the absurdity that comes from the mind of a child, and you proceed to handle it like an adult.

Also, it's not just a woman thing, I treat pretty much everyone like a child until they earn enough respect to treat them differently.

MarkJohnPaul · 2020-01-11T07:49:51+00:00

Calling them good girl when they do the right thing, patting them on the head when they do something good, not getting phased by their dumb drama because they can’t control themselves, telling them no, not giving into their silly demands...I mean...you literally just treat them like children...children act purely on instinct. They don’t think of anything but whatever the fuck comes to mind.

You gotta plan for them and direct them and guide them...literally take the reigns wherever you want to go and they’ll follow you if you believe that it’s the way to go and can overcome their rationale

Title	examples of treating women as children?
Author	serious_bs
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	January 10, 2020 5:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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