I'm having a bit of a mental conflict.

It has been decades since the feminist movement pushed the idea that only female rape a problem / male rape doesn't happen, but for the last 5 or so years, MRAs have pushed on the issue of male rape. Here's the thing though: I just don't see how it is at all possible for real men to be raped. Feminised / blue pill / beta males, yes, but what about the kind of men we want to be? The true male? Is male rape just a recent phenomenon that spawned from the feminization of males, or has is it always been a legitimate and natural occurrence? Help me out here guys, help fill me in on the key information I'm obviously missing.