Been seeing this girl for 4 months and everything was going good. Lately I got the gut feeling that something is up. She barley texts me like before and sending me pictures and cancels plans. I feel as if she is losing attraction.

A week ago we made plans to meet up and she flat out canceled a couple hours prior. She sends me a text along the lines of tonight is not going to work for her tonight and we should meet up another time and gives me a bunch of lame excuses. It just bothered me because she waited till the last second. I didn’t respond to her text and I initiated a soft next. I made absolutely no contact whatsoever which is unusual because we actually talked everyday. It’s been a week and I haven’t heard from her. She still watches my stories on Instagram and posts shit. I know she isn’t a very busy person. I try not to let it get to me. I’m talking to other girls so that kind of helps.

Did I soft next correctly?

I don’t know if I should break the soft next?

or extend it?

Wait till she contacts me?