Background: I have known this girl since January and have talked with her in person many times since May. I have attended parties/social events with her these past 2 months. I have broke the touch barrier (arm around her, held hands before). A few weeks ago I ended up making out with her at a bar briefly (she ended up getting sick after bar close so nothing happened afterwards)

I asked a girl if she was free and to join me for a walk outside (beautiful weather out). She met me at my place at first briefly to place her purse and stuff there etc. and we went for the walk. Walk was great, we have great chemistry and during this time would tease/talk about anything. No physical contact during this time.

We then go back to my place and have a drink, there we talked/joked around 30-40 minutes and decided to go back out to a restaurant to eat. I started to built some tension during this time.

At the restaurant she and I seemed to be doing great and she was giving non verbals that she was into me. After leaving I made my first physical move by side hugging her tight for 5-10 seconds while walking after teasing her about an inside joke. We started walking towards my place, I never mentioned walking back or what to do.

We got inside, she was close to me and I could feel like she maybe wanted to kiss. I felt I should wait so it doesn’t look like I did everything to try and sleep with her. I went to the bathroom, she sat on the couch and turned on Netflix. I cuddled next to her and watched a TV show that was like 35-40 minutes? During this time I would slowly move my hand up her thigh as high as I could then back down (trying to escalate). During the show I felt twice she looked at me like she wanted to kiss me, but I wanted to make her hold off my then placing my hand lower on her hip/having my other hand basically on her vagina. I then turned to her, have her a compliment and went in for the kiss.

She was about it and we started making out kind of hard, I was handsie and went for her breasts after a few minutes but she pushed my hands away. I went for her vagina, but she pushed my hands away. She let me the 2nd time to touch her breasts and kiss her neck/breasts. We talked and had fun laughing about stuff telling me “I’m a good kisser” and “how she has had a crush on me for a month” and “who knew you had it in you” while winking at me.

At this point I went back in fully for the f-close. Did everything to build up and when I put my hand on her vagina once more she pushed it away and said “stop” but giggled/smiled when saying so. In the end I got handsie with her breasts/ass but nothing else and we made out for a solid 15-20 minutes.

We then cuddled watched another episode and she kissed me goodnight and said it was fun tonight, and when I mentioned doing something next week possibly she smiled and said yes.

Did I fuck up? Was that ASD? Is she trying to test me and wants to wait to smash?