for most of my life i haven’t been able to focus on my studies. when i was in high school my parents sabotaged my college application process. after a rough year i’m now redoing my first year of community college and am finally feeling like i’m reaching a turning point where i won’t be perturbed from my mission. my parents are seeing this and doubling down, trying to checkmate me, mainly with their financial control. it’s not working so far but i’m not sure i can hold onto this for 4 more years. my needs are not being met and that’s fine i understand nobody owes me shit. but this way of living is unsustainable. should i throw in the towel and get out of here? should i power through the abuse? i’m not seeing any options in between