Hey guys,

I need advice (and bros), or actually I need to be reminded that I am not crazy.

It isn't okay for a woman to not talk of me (I am her new crush, we've been chatting for three weeks non-stop. We can't get enough of each's others.) to her current boyfriend, right? I asked her again today if she finally had the courage to tell her partner that it is over (she REALLY wants to be with me and apparently her partner isn't the best) and replied that she'll wait to see how it goes for the next two months... Like, WHAT!?

After all that sweet talk, how she loves me and think the world of me, she told me that she'll stay with him to see how it goes. I told her goodbye. She kept texting me that's not what she meant, blah blah blah. I stood my ground.I'm not a Plan B!

What if I am being too hard? The language is a barrier for both. The affection is there. She's amazing... But. ACTION SPEAKERS LOUDER THAN WORDS.

That's four Brazilian women that consider me as a plan B. What gives? Are they just afraid of going the gringo way? But then, why all the sweet talk? Here it seems to be I LOVE YOU BUT NOT ENOUGH TO COMMIT. What gives?

Anyway. Just needed brothers. Thanks for your listening. I feel lonely tonight.