It is easy to see these creatures and be scared. And while posturing online about how actually all women are dirty sluts who you should spit on when you see them, it is much different to be in active combat than to be training on the base. How do women tick? What gets them going? And how can we apply it to our speech
Three thousand years ago, we didn't need PUA or RedPill. The best man won. And that was all. But we improved, in some ways, bit became out of touch with our animal feelings. And that is the key word to keep in mind.
Feeling
A guy who makes a pretty girl feel a lot of emotions has a higher chance of fucking her than a suave, debonair type who makes her feel little. Canned lines don't really work as well as most men think, if no passion exists behind the words. That is why the 'neg' was created.
The Neg
What is a neg? And how do we use it?
The Neg was popularized by pick up artisr Mystery, and it's basic premise is to insult a girl to lower her status and raise yours. This makes her feel emotions (negative if executed poorly) but also makes her feel inferior to you. This is now known as 'push-pull' in most pickup communites. In this style, you push, by saying something that lowers her self esteem, and pull, by saying something that raises it. Every action has an opposite reaction. Why does this work? And how do we use it?
The push pull adds to the mystery of the man, by making his intentions not entirely clear. He likes her, then he doesn't. Most women very clearly see the intentions of men they come into contact with. In the eyes, in the vocal patterns. By insulting and then complimenting (or ideally, a backhanded compliment), she now is not sure if she could even 'have' you if she wanted to. Because women usally get the pick of the litter, they become more keen on men who are perceived as 'unavaliable' to them. That's why a man pushing a stroller or wearing a wedding ring may notice he has more female attention. Some examples of push-pull and negs would be:
'Your Instagram Makes You Seem So Fun!'
'I love your new hairstyle! It suits you better'
'You're very pretty, too bad you're not my type'
'You remind me alot of my kid sister'
'You remind me of my aunt Minnie.'
'You're cute, in a dorky way.'
'Geez, you must have driven your parents crazy.'
And so on. These make her feel as if she is being disqualified from your consideration, which makes her try and win you back. Hopefully this explains to you how to use this technique effectively next time you approach.
