How to start with TRP?

superdrolic · 2020-01-19T22:28:33+00:00

Read and take action

fannyfire · 2020-01-19T22:25:27+00:00

By reading the sidebar you lazy fuck

learning0007 · 2020-01-20T00:26:06+00:00

Sidebar and lift

whyteglow · 2020-01-20T00:54:30+00:00

This is actually a good question, because there are many others in your shoes. Some of us only just arrived at this awareness of TRP, and getting started can seem like a task. It doesn't have to be.

A good place to start is the sidebar, and then read through some of the older threads on here to see what it's really about.

For me, I found it useful to relate the topics and discussions to my own life. That's a more valuable way to integrate the concepts instead of just memorizing theory on its own. Ask yourself, how does this apply to me?

There are some fundamental tenets and acronyms which will help you make sense of it all, some of which will be alien or counterintuitive to you, depending on your background or circumstances. You'll find them in the sidebar.

Ask yourself this:

a) how did you become interested in TRP? Was it a book? Or something you observed in real life?

b) how do you learn best? Is it by reading text, or watching videos?

c) why are you interested in this stuff? What do you want out of it?

d) are you prepared to do the work to integrate TRP into your life? It will change your entire outlook

After reading the Sidebar, theres a vast array of books and blog posts to read, which will help you understand the concepts even more. Its a daunting attempt, no doubt, because some of it is hard to accept, and even harder to internalize.

Don't approach TRP as "the solution" that will fix everything for you. Instead view it as "a mirror", which can show your inadequacies and which highlights areas of your mindset/life that requires attention and adjustment.

Learning TRP (for me) has been about internalization and action. Most of what you will learn is contrary to what a fem-centric society will ask you to believe, plus TRP can be raw, painful, and the bitter truth.

To learn it, you have to be dedicated to study, observation, and then action. Essentially, "do the right thing, and don't do the wrong thing".

If that sounds like what you really want to do, then start from the sidebar. Find a parallel in real life (via observation), then re-read the sidebar. Observe your own self, your thoughts and actions, then re-read the sidebar again, to see if you're doing the right thing.

After that, you may have a different kind of question.

I'm on a similar path of learning TRP, and I don't believe the learning ever ends.

Title	How to start with TRP?
Author	ExplicitSick
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	January 19, 2020 10:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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